I was sitting in my living room listening to Pandora, and a dear friend called me to inform me of a break-up between her and her boyfriend. Our 300 mile difference couldn’t prevent her pain from traveling to my location. I felt her suffering and distress. We talked briefly about this tragedy, and then I began to encourage her.
Only if I could have a summit for all these hurt black women who can’t grasp this thing called LOVE! When I was speaking to my dear friend I had an epiphany!
“Stop giving up the pussy so fast, and treat yourself better”. Yep, I said it. A classmate of mine wrote a very interesting Facebook note about “how men don’t have to work for the pussy anymore”. It’s a shame when a man has to publically tell women their prize possession is no longer an accolade to the male species.
As a young woman I have witnessed my peers become sexually involved with men who show them a fragment of attention. Is that it? I mean, all it takes is a dinner and movie? Or some flattering compliment before the relationship is sexual. It’s time for that kind of behavior to end NOW!!!
Sex is always different for women; a woman internalizes sexual intercourse, that’s why when it’s over she anticipates a call the next day. Sex is never just sex for women. “I don’t care if she’s a certified whore with a certificate”. When something is inserted inside a woman it impacts her inner being, mind, and spirit. Obviously, the H.I.V virus isn’t fearful enough to black women, so just TREAT yourself better.
I decided that I was going to treat ME like a Queen. I’m taking myself out on dates, movies, sky-diving, charity events, concerts, over-seas trips, cruises, shopping sprees and more. I’m pampering myself monthly with spa treatments, manicures, and pedicures. I am going to enjoy being a young, single, and God fearing woman.
When I dine out; I’m ordering expensive shit like Domenico Crolla’s “Pizza Royale. (wink).
I advise you women to treat yourself better. Treat yourself like a Queen; for the next time you are flattered and swept from your feet. You won’t be giving up the vagina in exchange for dinner, because you’ve eaten at the best restaurant, have the nicest clothes, and have seen the latest films.
He will have to compete with you, and if he cannot treat you better than you have treated yourself than he does not belong. Make it hard to impress you, by impressing yourself. So, when you hear a man say, you look nice” You won’t get weak. You’ll look at him and say “I know, and thank you”.
Meaningful Blessings,
Madam Prezident
FREAK
I gotta aunt that turn mo tricks than that silly rabbit
It’s crazy cuz, her daughters; my cousins developed that same habit
Their cribs became sit in traffic, they had something, but they just couldn’t grasp it
No dreams to call their own, no need to get wrapped up in that TV shit
So since age thirteen, the been wrapped up in dick
You wouldn’t believe half of the shit they do to get rent
Provide fantasies for freaks, they hop in and out of jeeps
With lawyers, doctors, and hood niggas they creep
Orgasms and back spasms keep them in Enyce
She’s only 25 her since of survival is demented
Her motto is “fuck to get what you want” It’s that simplistic
So she rides in the nicest whips
And when she’s feeling real freaky she brings out her whips
And she’ll show him additional tricks if he got a big ass tip
Her body is distorted by 6 to 7 abortions
She don’t realize every time she give it up
She giving up her temple in portions
Men NEVER see her POTENTIAL…which fucks with her MENTAL
Blinded by BIG BUTTS, niggas don’t give a f*ck when it comes to the NUT
They selfishly ABUSE her, her insides means nothing to them
They have TORN her insides
Sometime they run a train on her, 5 to 6 at a TIME
How can he be so careless, she was created from his side
So, she will always be by his side
I know she wants more than a couple of bucks
For her moments of lust
And I know that shit HURTS
Especially when you think a grand is your worth
So when you ask her questions about herself, she don’t EVEN know
She has gotten lost in sex as she thrives for financial STABILITY
No EDUCATION, No self-love, and No damn DIGNITY
A pack of LIFESTYLES couldn’t protect her from her LIFE STYLE
People that know her don’t KNOW who or what they SEE
Because the world don’t see her CRY for HELP they see a FREAK.
By: Madam Prezident
